Ejaculation By Command Review

Written By A Sex Therapist

How would you know if it's any good for you, otherwise?




How much do you want to make love with complete ejaculation control?

I've helped thousands of men control their premature ejaculation in the last twelve years, and I've reviewed hundreds of scientific studies in that time. Because of this work helping men with their sexual problems, I can say with confidence that at least 60% of men making love ejaculate before they or their partner wishes them to do so.

Now whether or not this matters is entirely a personal opinion. However, I'm guessing that it really matters to you because you're here reading my review of a program that claims to give you the power to ejaculate on command. That's a pretty big claim, and it deserves careful scrutiny, which doesn't mean looking at some so-called review written by a kid in high school trying to earn a few bucks on the side by selling a product he's probably never even bought.

That may sound a little bit cynical, but if you've tried to find genuine reviews on the Internet that are independent and authoritative, written by an expert who knows what he's talking about, you'll know why I recommend caution. As a professional sex therapist with many years' experience helping men to get over exactly what this program is all about – reaching climax before you want, without much control, or indeed any control at all – I reckon I know enough about this subject to tell you whether or not this is a good deal for you, and whether or not it can actually help you last longer in bed.

Before I get down to the nitty-gritty I'd just like to remind you of a simple point that is often overlooked: stopping premature ejaculation is not difficult. The only reason that it may seem difficult to prevent yourself climaxing during intercourse is because you haven't seen the right techniques explained properly, or you haven't been able to listen to a genuine expert on the subject. I know the author of this program, Lloyd Lester: he is both a personal friend and a colleague of mine. He has worked in the field of male sexual improvement for many years, and we've collaborated on a number of different projects over that time, so I can say with complete confidence that I trust the man.

In a way you can see his trustworthiness because his website is actually very professionally designed: he's sunk a lot of his own money into bringing this program, Ejaculation By Command, to a wider audience. Yep, of course you have to put money into any business, but a lot of people who are trying to sell a product on the Internet get away with the cheapest possible website they can build. That's not the approach that Lloyd has taken, and anybody who does even a quick review of his website can see that this is a high quality product.

OK. That's enough of an introduction; let's get down to the real meat of this site - my review of the program by Lloyd Lester.

(If you want to check out the program right now, click here. This link takes you directly to Lloyd Lester's website.)

Review of Ejaculation By Command

There are two versions available, the standard version and the platinum version. The difference between these is all about the added value that you get in terms of additional information. You don't have to get the platinum edition, but it's extremely worthwhile, because you get some really valuable bonuses. The price of the basic edition is just under $50; the additional charge for the platinum edition is a mere $27; this gets you over $150 worth of bonuses.

Review of the basic edition of Ejaculation By Command

There are nine separate parts in the basic edition of Ejaculation By Command. They are:

  • First, the main eBook, and an audio version of it for those who prefer to listen to the material, called, unsurprisingly, Ejaculation By Command.
  • Four supplementary eBooks listed below:
  • Emergency Tactics to Last Longer, which is all about 15 fantastic techniques ejaculation control which you can use right away to give yourself a head start. You can imagine how useful this is when you have a new partner and you're making love to her for the first time, or if you wish to surprise your existing partner with your new-found prowess in bed. You might wonder if these tactics are something you can use permanently… well, yes and no.... By which I mean, the truth is that only the techniques for a permanent cure described in the main eBook will give you the confidence to completely relax when you're in bed with a woman. Only the techniques geared up for a permanent cure will allow you to make love and never have to think about coming too soon. That's something worth aiming for.... imagine how good your lovemaking would be if you never had to think about using some kind of trick to stop yourself coming, and you never had to apply any kind of control techniques during lovemaking. In short, natural control is best!
  • Quick Start Guide, this is absolutely essential reading. It distils the essence of the 135 page eBook down into its simplest form so that once you've read all of the techniques, you have a handy, easy-to-use, quick reference guide to remind you what you need to be doing as you explore the secrets of complete climax control.
  • There are two eBooks, lavishly illustrated and full of valuable information about how to improve your sexual techniques, called Raunchy Sex Secrets and Female Orgasm Secrets. If you ever had a problem getting a woman to orgasm, then stop worrying about it right now! Your problems are over. This information is priceless. Remember, a woman who has plenty of orgasms in bed is a happy woman out of bed: so the quality of your relationship will be transformed by the knowledge you're about to pick up from this program.

Now as if that weren't enough, you get a bonus video series on how to take a woman to orgasm and what role the G spot plays in that process – and in particular how you can find it and stimulate it in a way that she'll most likely never have experienced before, and will make her scream with ecstasy as you pleasure her.

You think I'm exaggerating? Well, think again. This material is not for boys in bed. It's for men. It's for men who want to be the best lovers they can be. It's for men who really care about having good sex – and giving good sex to their partners. If you want to check Ejaculation By Command out right now, click here. It's serious stuff.

There are two more bonuses, one about The Top 10 Sex Positions, and one which is a bit of a secret really, so I won't give it away in this review. The truth is, however, it's a fantastic way of making your relationship better both inside and outside the bedroom. After all, sex is not just about good technique – it's also about having a good relationship before you even think about going to bed, because feeling close and connected to her man makes a woman really open up to him during sexual pleasure – it's all about trust.

Ejaculation By Command Platinum Edition

The extras that you get for the platinum package are five powerful eBooks, videos and audio material. Here's my review of them.

They are titled:

  • Beyond Supreme Stamina, which is all about achieving male multiple orgasm. (Yes, you can have as many orgasms you want, just like she can. If you don't believe that now you're in for a big surprise… endless, unlimited orgasmic pleasure. Disclaimer: you may not ejaculate every time you have an orgasm. LOL.)
  • Longevity Supremo, which is a fantastic set of techniques and information about changing your mindset, so that your confidence level soars during intercourse.
  • Penis Supremacy.... If you're interested in the possibility of increasing your size, this can be helpful. It's not of interest to me so I'm not going to make any comment on it, other than to say as far as I'm concerned, it doesn't matter what size your penis is; provided you can control your orgasm, you can give pleasure to any woman and have her begging you to take her to bed whenever you want. You see, the thing is, women don't really worry about penis size in the way that men do. What they want during sex is a man who cares about them, a man who shows he cares about them, a man who can give them unlimited pleasure during sex. That demands stamina, not size!
  • Turbo Sexual Fuel. Now here's something interesting and different, a whole series of recommendations about food you can eat, and nutritional supplements you can take, to boost your sexual power, health, and desire. (Read on to find out more.)
  • And there's even more about "Platinum Sex Positions": truly, the most amazing collection of sex positions you've ever seen.

So why is all this so good? Well there are several reasons. First and foremost, I think in reviewing Ejaculation By Command what I discovered was that the author, Lloyd Lester, has brought his heart to this work. It isn't just about making money, it isn't just about selling a product. It's actually about helping men to have better sex. And there's more: it's really about helping a man and a woman to have better sex, and achieving the greatest pleasure that they can possibly have during intercourse.

Many of us, I think, struggle with the belief that good sex is somehow difficult or complicated, or that it involves a whole series of sophisticated sexual techniques known only to the experts.

The truth is quite different, of course. Sex is natural, and good sex only takes a little bit of time and knowledge. The thing is, as we grow up, who gives us this knowledge?

Certainly not our fathers, and the information we get from older brothers or friends at school isn't likely to be much use. So having a source of information like this is worth its weight in gold - it tells you what things you need to know to have really great sex – and the extraordinary thing is that all of these things are actually quite natural and normal. Once they've been pointed out, that is.....

By bringing all this information together in a way that is easy to understand and even easier to follow, Lloyd has put together a package which is indispensable for men looking for better ejaculation control. As I say, I've reviewed Ejaculation By Command and I'm very impressed with it. But there is something I haven't told you, which is that the reason I became a sex therapist was because of my own pathetic performance in bed.

That more or less amounted to ejaculating as soon as I entered a woman, which in turn led to me not having many girlfriends for very long. When I look back on it now and review my sexual history, I don't feel embarrassed about it – I just didn't know any better at the time. But what I do regret, enormously, is the fact that I missed out on so much sexual pleasure, just because I didn't know what to do to get my ejaculation under control.

All the information you need to control your ejaculation and achieve great sexual pleasure comes together in this wonderful program. Just reviewing "Ejaculation By Command" has reminded me how much men have to discover about how to control yourself in bed. That means that you can choose when you have your orgasm and you can choose when you ejaculate during sexual intercourse. Yes, you can actually choose when to ejaculate.

How on earth do you choose when to ejaculate?

The answer is you keep your sexual arousal below the point at which you know you're going to come and you can't stop it (the point of no return, also known as the point of ejaculatory inevitability). Then, when it's time to "release", you take yourself over the point of no return.... by harder or faster thrusting, or something else that arouses you more and more...

So the first thing is to raise the level of sexual arousal at which you ejaculate, particularly if you come with very little sexual stimulation.

In a way, that's the first part of the program. And though it won't apply to everybody, for the men whose threshold of ejaculation is far too low, there is a whole set of easy techniques described in the eBook which will allow you to train your body to take more sexual stimulation without ejaculating. And, of course, to take stimulation for much longer without becoming too aroused and releasing before you wish to do so.....

The second set of techniques is made up of ways to control your ejaculation when you're getting near the point of climax. You may have heard of some of these techniques: using your PC muscle, for example. Well, don't get the idea that this is all about squeezing as hard as you can to stop yourself coming! The truth is, as you may well know if you've tried this, that idea is hopeless!

It simply doesn't work, a remarkable fact when you consider that there are some so-called premature ejaculation treatment programs on the market which rely on that and nothing else as a method of ejaculation control.

Unfortunately some so-called reviewers have written about them in a completely positive way - because they get commissions from sales. However, let's leave that aside. The fact is, I don't really want to criticize other programs - instead, I want to show you how good Ejaculation By Command is by reviewing it honestly, so that you have a shortcut to the most effective method of ejaculation control available today - in my humble opinion as an experienced sexual therapist!

Now, where was I? Ah yes - the PC muscle. It's a muscle deep down in your pelvis which (more or less) controls ejaculation and the hardness of your erections. If you know how to contract it briefly and correctly while you're making love, you can last much much longer in bed – and by that I mean like 10 times longer.

What you definitely can't do, however, is squeeze it at the point where you're going to ejaculate and thereby stop yourself coming. That is impossible and doesn't work. Used correctly, however, what you'll find is that muscles squeezes ever-so-slightly reduce the hardness of your erection and, more importantly, reduce the level of your sexual arousal quite significantly. This means you can go on making love without any danger of ejaculating for as long as it takes to satisfy you and your partner.

I said above that Lloyd provides many techniques to control ejaculation, and so he does. Physical techniques are a part of the battle, but really only a part.

That's because you also need confidence in your ability to last long enough in bed, not just because that helps you control premature ejaculation and prevent your climax from occurring unexpectedly, but also because it conveys itself to the woman that you care about her sexual pleasure.

A woman in love with you has no greater desire then to feel your true masculine power as you thrust into her. Yeah, that's the power of sex – the real meeting of masculine and feminine, which provides the most satisfying experience both you and your partner will ever have.

Now, there are lots of techniques that can help to change your mental attitude to almost anything in life: hypnosis, meditation, positive affirmations… and a whole lot more.  However those take up time every day, and it's often weeks before they make a discernible difference.

What you need are techniques that give you the confidence to make love with full confidence in your sexual capacity and strength, and you need them to work almost instantly. As far as I'm aware, the only techniques that will do that for you are NLP, or neurolinguistic programming, techniques.

Just imagine how important it is for you, as a man, to have total control over your sexual performance in bed. I've said several times that the techniques in Ejaculation By Command are worth their weight in gold, but nowhere is that more true than with the NLP techniques that allow you to almost instantly change your level of sexual self-confidence.

The point is, with huge sexual confidence, you go into sex knowing that you can last as long as you want. It's a given. And when you feel like that, you may not even need to use the physical techniques, because your body follows what your mind dictates.

So you can see by now that I'm quite excited about this program. I'm not excited about it just because these are the techniques that helped me become a powerful and completely controlled lover in bed: I'm excited about it because it could transform your entire life.

How you feel as a man isn't just about how you feel in your job, in your home, in your relationship. I think it doesn't really depends on any of those: at its root, I think how you feel about yourself as a man depends on how good you are in bed, how good you are at pleasuring a woman.

Whether you agree with that or not, please give yourself the best chance of transforming the quality of your sex life by looking at Ejaculation By Command.

There's something else you need to know as well. I know you feel bad about premature ejaculation, because you're here reading this. But your partner also feels bad about it. I'm telling you this as a fact even if she says she doesn't care about it, and even if she looks like it doesn't matter. You can take it from me, it matters to her.

For one thing, she wants the satisfaction of having you inside her for as long as possible during intercourse, so that she can feel the emotional connection between you as well as the physical connection – which is how she's going to get the greatest amount of pleasure during intercourse.

Lloyd's quite straightforward about this in his program. He's reviewed enough cases of ejaculatory dysfunction to know what he's talking about when he says: "Not being able to last long enough can put considerable strain even in the most enduring sexual relationships. Even if your female partner says she doesn't mind, the simple truth is she will almost certainly wonder what sex would be like if you (or any other man) could last long enough to bring her to an exquisite orgasm."

Yes, I accept this is pretty challenging stuff. The idea that your relationship might founder because you're not very good in bed is a bit of a challenge, particularly if you're a two-minute man. But here's the point: you don't have to be a two-minute man, you don't even have to be a four-minute man, or a six-minute man or a ten-minute man… you can be a 27-minute man, a 37-minute man, or more. In short, you can choose when to ejaculate during sex.

OK. I realize I haven't yet explained that point fully. The answer is actually very simple: when you have better control over your level of arousal during intercourse, and when you can take more stimulation before you even think you're going to ejaculate (and this comes from using the techniques in Ejaculation By Command), THEN you can make love for as long as you want without reaching "the point of no return" until you choose to go there.....

So, when you want to come, all you have to do is increase the power and force of your thrusts during intercourse, or increase the level of stimulation you're getting – for example by sucking her breasts or having her play with the most sensitive parts of your body or kissing her or indulging in some wild fantasy.... or whatever.

Ejaculation By Command Reviewers Agree - It Works!

The point is, you have control of your arousal so you can increase it when you want. When you do - it's only a short and glorious step to a magnificent orgasm. And do you see that when you can do this, you'll be able to time your orgasm to coincide with your partner's?

A lot of people say it isn't worth aiming for simultaneous climax, for all kinds of reasons. I think the people who say this are mostly people who've never experienced it, because I can tell you that simultaneous climax can really transform sex from "good" to "great". And it's all available for you with the techniques in Ejaculation By Command.

Now, you might have heard of the possibility of using prescription medications as a means of ejaculation control, and you might be wondering why it's better to use the techniques described in an ejaculation control program than popping a pill. After all, it is quite easy just go to the doctors, get a prescription, get it dispensed, then pop a pill ..... and before you know it you're lasting, oh… 2 minutes 30 seconds instead of 2 minutes. (Yes, seriously.)

Ah. Not so good, really, is it? And the unfortunate thing is that I'm not joking. By taking heavy duty antidepressants – which is what the drugs available to control PE actually are – you risk interfering with the way your mind works, you risk getting all kinds of side effects like anxiety, nausea, and goodness knows what else - headaches for one - and you don't really get much benefit anyway. It's crazy; it doesn't make any sense. Don't do it.

At this point, you might be thinking, "Well, I'll buy into that idea, but maybe I could still use a delay spray or delay condoms."

You certainly could, but I strongly recommend that if you're thinking of doing so you click on this link, which will open up a new window, and read about some of the effects that these delay sprays can have on men who try them. Suddenly they become much less attractive, because either they don't work, or they feel like they're burning the skin of your penis. Not pleasant!

If you've ever watched a porn film – and I'm guessing you might have done because well, frankly, most men have done – you might have wondered how porn stars can go on making love for so long without ejaculating. The answer is that they use the techniques described in Ejaculation By Command!

I know this is true because years ago, when I was doing a bit of research for my website www.the-penis.com I talked to a few of these characters and discovered how they operate. Now, I find the same techniques written down in a program about ejaculation control for men like you. Bit ironic really, but nonetheless the incredible stamina displayed in those films can be yours for the taking. That will certainly change your partner's view of you as a lover!

I want to emphasize also that although there's a lot of information in this program, it's not actually necessary to read and understand every bit of it.

For example, there's a lengthy section which explains how your mind and body responds to sexual stimulation, describes how you get an erection, what the nature of sexual desire really is, and all the rest of it. I don't think this is particularly important if you just want to last longer in bed.

Indeed, if I have a criticism of this program, it's that there is rather a lot of background information which is interesting, but not essential. Having said that, I think it all adds to the value of the program: in my opinion, the fact you get all the techniques a sex therapist would show you in, say, five personal sessions for $200 a time (total price $1000) for a mere $50 on the Internet makes this an absolute and completely compelling bargain which frankly you can't afford to miss.

What else is there in Ejaculation By Command?

Read on to find out more in this genuine review of Ejaculation By Command. I'm guessing by now that you've come to realize I'm something of a fan of this program. But its down-to-earth, accurate, and compelling information gives you the best opportunity for ejaculation control you're ever likely to come across.

But it isn't just about ejaculation control. As I've hinted above, there's a whole load of information about how to pleasure a woman here, including such vital things as why you absolutely have to give her an orgasm before you enter her for intercourse.

If you don't know this you're missing out on a critical piece of lovemaking technique that can massively increase her desire for sex. (The answer, by the way, is that after she's had an orgasm thru' manual or oral stimulation, she is mentally much more ready to take your erect penis into her body and she'll respond to your lovemaking much more vigorously and enthusiastically. Not only that, but the inside of her vagina will be warm, wet and swollen so your physical pleasure will be immeasurably better and more satisfying. Who said foreplay wasn't worth it?)

One of the other things that men constantly complain about to me is the fact that their partner doesn't want to have sex. There are many reasons why women lose their sexual desire, but one interesting thing you may not know is that the solution is almost always in your hands.

It's about the way you relate to her, both in and out of the bedroom. Mental attitude, what the pickup artists call the "inner game", is all about knowing how to treat a woman in the way that's going to make her heart and body want you so much that she responds to you with instant desire whenever you initiate sex. In this state, she'll often initiate sex herself, she wants it so much.

Do you realize you have that power in your hands right now? All you need to make it manifest is the knowledge that comes with Ejaculation By Command, which will show you, step-by-step, exactly how to make these things happen in your relationship.

So: a summary of this review so far.

To start with: there's 135 pages of an immensely frank, no-holds-barred, devastating eBook full of all the tips, techniques and strategies that you can use right now for an immediate boost in your staying power, and in the longer term to give yourself complete ejaculatory control and total mastery in bed.

And you get the inside track on how to create a mental attitude that will make a woman want to go to bed with you. That includes a detailed description of how your body reacts to every stage of sex from the first thought of making love to your post-orgasmic pleasure, and how you can get the most out of every step of the process – of course the most important thing of all being how you can stay below the point of no return without ejaculating for as long as you want.

I've seen reviews of this program which have clearly been written by people who haven't even bought it, people who have simply picked up little bits of information from here and there on the Internet and reproduced them. I had full access to this program all the way from its design to publication. I've studied it in detail, and I've personally used all the techniques relevant to me or my clients.

If you have any questions you can email me with them, and I will answer them personally.

You can also email the author of the program and he will answer you promptly as well. When I asked a friend to buy the program and check out the level of customer support – I had to do that because Lloyd knows who I am – I confirmed that Lloyd answers emails from customers or potential customers within 24 hours, and he spends as much time dealing with your questions as you need. That's something I actually haven't found anywhere else in the extraordinary world of ejaculation control systems on the Internet. It demonstrates the man's honesty and integrity, in my view.

So there you have it: mental techniques, physical techniques, behavioral techniques, NLP techniques.... whatever you need to last as long as you want with a woman.

These techniques are simply explosive! They are incredibly powerful – far from some wimpy stuff like trying to distract yourself by thinking about taxes or baseball, or using a delay condom which means you have to go on making love for hours before you even have any chance of ejaculating, all the time feeling nothing in your penis anyway.

Instead, with Ejaculation By Command you can be right in there with your woman, relishing every moment of sex, pleasuring her in a way she's never experienced before and having massive orgasms as well .... possibly at the same time as each other.

So having said all that, you can see I'm a fan of the program. If you think you've heard enough, and you want to check it out or buy it – and remember, you have a 60 day money back guarantee so there's no risk – then go to the top of this page where it says "NOW IS THE TIME TO STOP" and click on the link where it says "Click here to find out how you can change all this, quickly, easily, and for ever."

By the way, I would love to hear how it works for you and if you feel inclined to send me any feedback to publish I'd be delighted to publish your own reviews of Lloyd Lester's work right here on this website. Nothing succeeds like success. Good luck!

Rod Phillips


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